June 12, Pemberton, New Jersey (30 miles, municipal building grounds.)
Thursday, June 12, 2008
Wednesday, June 11, 2008
The Sopranos pilgrimage.
June 11, Beachwood.
We're just like everybody else.
We're devoted fans of The Sopranos, the HBO television drama. So instead of going just two miles to the beach here in Toms River next door, we drove all the way up to Asbury Park, eight exits on the Parkway, to go to the place where a Sopranos scene was shot, on the boardwalk next to the Asbury Park Convention Hall, a grandiose Art Deco building, designed by the same architects behind Grand Central Station in New York City, jutting out into the ocean. I had gone there with Kris in February and it was just like in the series, deserted. Today there was a lot of construction activity, the renovation of the center and boardwalk retail shops, and people on the beach, albeit not that many.
Tuesday, June 10, 2008
The Jersey Shore.
June 10, Beachwood.
It is positively searing, and it's not fun at all. This is the fourth day but should be the last, alleluia. As the heat settled and grew, the show went shrinking. Sara didn't perform her trapeze act, as the heat in the upper parts of the tent became unbearable and the air too thin; the Kenyans didn't work today's last show either.
We're on the Jersey Shore (and here for two days again, oh the luxuries,) and I just love the way they say it here. The Jersey Shore. And I love the diners, their gaudiness, the waitresses, the outrageous pies on display when you come in, and the miles of Danish, the smell of coffee, diner food.
A French woman's paradise, positively.
It is positively searing, and it's not fun at all. This is the fourth day but should be the last, alleluia. As the heat settled and grew, the show went shrinking. Sara didn't perform her trapeze act, as the heat in the upper parts of the tent became unbearable and the air too thin; the Kenyans didn't work today's last show either.
We're on the Jersey Shore (and here for two days again, oh the luxuries,) and I just love the way they say it here. The Jersey Shore. And I love the diners, their gaudiness, the waitresses, the outrageous pies on display when you come in, and the miles of Danish, the smell of coffee, diner food.
A French woman's paradise, positively.
Monday, June 09, 2008
Festivities.
June 8, Bridgeton.
It felt good here in Bridgeton these two days, it felt like a fiesta. Fridman prepared a ceviche and a barbeque last night after the show to celebrate his birthday. Jorge, Julio, John and Reina, Castro came and Dylan and Nicolas and all the other kids running around and having a party of their own when I came back from getting more beer, it felt so festive. Our trailer was parked last, facing an open field, they had all the space in the world to run free.
This morning while Fridman was still asleep I took the kids and went shopping: a tiny birthday cake and fish for another ceviche, for a surprise birthday brunch. Three days of celebration for the big three Os.
It felt good here in Bridgeton these two days, it felt like a fiesta. Fridman prepared a ceviche and a barbeque last night after the show to celebrate his birthday. Jorge, Julio, John and Reina, Castro came and Dylan and Nicolas and all the other kids running around and having a party of their own when I came back from getting more beer, it felt so festive. Our trailer was parked last, facing an open field, they had all the space in the world to run free.
This morning while Fridman was still asleep I took the kids and went shopping: a tiny birthday cake and fish for another ceviche, for a surprise birthday brunch. Three days of celebration for the big three Os.
Sunday, June 08, 2008
Happy birthday Fridman (just don't fall off the trapeze, please.)
June 7, Bridgeton.
The handsome man in the show is messing with my bed. If I only were forty years younger.
So said seventy-two-year-old Myrna, our circus cook, as Fridman was working on her water heater, located under her bed.
About a month after the season started he began fixing her broken-down trailer and a quirky little saga began. Leaky roofs got patched, valves repaired, doors refurbished, and every time he would finish something she would find a detail she didn't like and complain about it. She yelled at him, told him to mind his own business, called him a chauvinist, and all the while made little flirty comments which became our daily funnies. We came to care for her the way you take to an old great-aunt who's a little odd but also the sweetest in the family.
Yesterday was Fridman's birthday. He worked all day long to make her a new door and when it was done she complained. We laughed it off as the way Myrna is. But when he pulled himself up the rope for his trapeze act there was a little old lady down in the alley looking up at him with a big hand-written sign that read "Happy Birthday Fridman," and he almost fell off the trapeze for laughing so hard.
At the cook house to get dinner earlier I had told Myrna it was his birthday.
Saturday, June 07, 2008
Dreams.
June 7, Bridgeton.
This is my paradise, my little piece of heaven found.
Within reach of Philadelphia and my old home of Wilmington, a couple of hours from New York City, close to the ocean, green rolling hills and farmland all around, I'm salivating all the way down here and again on our drive to breakfast this morning, trying to figure out a way to find work here. We went for garage sales and I asked people about the area, and found out that there is a good elementary school north of town. It's working class, there are a lot of immigrants, a sizable African-American population, it's real, alive, I love it.
It is good to have dreams, especially impossible ones.
This is my paradise, my little piece of heaven found.
Within reach of Philadelphia and my old home of Wilmington, a couple of hours from New York City, close to the ocean, green rolling hills and farmland all around, I'm salivating all the way down here and again on our drive to breakfast this morning, trying to figure out a way to find work here. We went for garage sales and I asked people about the area, and found out that there is a good elementary school north of town. It's working class, there are a lot of immigrants, a sizable African-American population, it's real, alive, I love it.
It is good to have dreams, especially impossible ones.
Heat wave.
June 7, Bridgeton.
We're in the middle of the first heat wave of the summer, and we are searing, artists having to perform under a dark-colored tent, and for those, like Fridman and Sara, who work high under the big top, it is simply unbearable.
We're in the middle of the first heat wave of the summer, and we are searing, artists having to perform under a dark-colored tent, and for those, like Fridman and Sara, who work high under the big top, it is simply unbearable.
Friday, June 06, 2008
The Homeland/half orange's birthday.
June 6, Mullica Hill.
We're in Jersey! The Homeland! (private joke, hi Kris.)
And... happy birthday my Fridman, and a momentous one: he turns 30 today.
So it's official, we're both old - only he's a little younger, that's all.
We're in Jersey! The Homeland! (private joke, hi Kris.)
And... happy birthday my Fridman, and a momentous one: he turns 30 today.
So it's official, we're both old - only he's a little younger, that's all.
Thursday, June 05, 2008
New order.
June 5, Amityville.
Things forgotten: last Saturday the show changed to a new order, with the first half much longer now than the second, and people complaining, as people will do, since nobody likes change. Fridman now does the upside-down walk in the first half and the rola bola in the second, and the cats open the show, something Casey had wanted from the start.
On an unrelated tangent, it has gotten quite warm, as they used to say on the radio in Riverside when the thermometer got anchored at 105 degrees for weeks.
Things forgotten: last Saturday the show changed to a new order, with the first half much longer now than the second, and people complaining, as people will do, since nobody likes change. Fridman now does the upside-down walk in the first half and the rola bola in the second, and the cats open the show, something Casey had wanted from the start.
On an unrelated tangent, it has gotten quite warm, as they used to say on the radio in Riverside when the thermometer got anchored at 105 degrees for weeks.
Wednesday, June 04, 2008
Tuesday, June 03, 2008
Nileeni.
June 2, Olney.
The last time Nileeni and I saw each other was 13 years ago, when we were both in graduate school in MIssouri. She has been living and working in the D.C. area since she left Missouri in 1996 but I'd never seen her again. We called, emailed, years passed.
And there she was, and all those years vanished. Seeing her again, and meeting her husband, Shaym, for the first time, only underscored what I already knew: how lonely I sometimes get for my friends. My long-time friends are in France, in Brazil, in Morocco, Florence, Fred and Virginia, and Marie, and here, Kris and Greg and the photo girls in Riverside, California, and friends from the Missouri photo mafia are all over the world, in Singapore, in Malaysia, in the Middle East and all over this country too.
I miss those friendships, the actual physical contact and interaction involved, even if everybody's life has changed. Nileeni gave me a hug and we were twenty-something grad students struggling with work and study overload.
The last time Nileeni and I saw each other was 13 years ago, when we were both in graduate school in MIssouri. She has been living and working in the D.C. area since she left Missouri in 1996 but I'd never seen her again. We called, emailed, years passed.
And there she was, and all those years vanished. Seeing her again, and meeting her husband, Shaym, for the first time, only underscored what I already knew: how lonely I sometimes get for my friends. My long-time friends are in France, in Brazil, in Morocco, Florence, Fred and Virginia, and Marie, and here, Kris and Greg and the photo girls in Riverside, California, and friends from the Missouri photo mafia are all over the world, in Singapore, in Malaysia, in the Middle East and all over this country too.
I miss those friendships, the actual physical contact and interaction involved, even if everybody's life has changed. Nileeni gave me a hug and we were twenty-something grad students struggling with work and study overload.
Sunday, June 01, 2008
Strawberries.
May 31, West Friendship.
Fans of the circus brought us lunch today, we ate under the big top, there were local strawberries, Dylan would go and fill his plate, signaling for us to wait, finger and eyebrows raised, he would climb up the bench, slide past the sugar-drenched cakes and pick the strawberries carefully, and come back holding the plate with both hands, then eat them all (after we sucked them clean, I'm always leery of pesticides) and repeat the operation.
It made up for the not-so-nice lot.
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